PEREZ HILTON

http://perezhilton.com/

Who doesn’t love it? I’m talking about Perez Hilton’s website!!! It gives us the best dirt on all of our favorite celebrity friends with a quirky twist! I love how I can log on and see ten different pictures of Britney Spears in a car, and a different, funny, rude sarcastic comment following each. I think he is so successful off of this website because he gives people the part of the gossip magazines, everyday, for free! I’m going to admit, it’s a guilty pleasure… no one likes to say that they like to indulge themselves in the shortcomings of others, but sometimes it’s good to see that these celebrities do have flaws.

Taser Death At Airport

http://video.canada.com/Global_VideoContentHTML.aspx (video of the taser death)

I just don’t understand… how could this have happened in today’s society? Are we not a multicultural country, do we not have people that can understand and speak different languages when someone is clearly distraught? I was disturbed by this video, in more than one way it worked at destroying the friendly understanding Canadian image and helped to create one for us of hatred and violence. I couldn’t grasp, in my head, why this man needed to be tasered! He was lost, he was visibly confused and just needed help, and the only way he began to throw things was because people and security guards were treating him like an animal. If I was in a foreign country and could not speak the language and people were staring and pointing instead of attempt to help me I would be furious and humiliated! Humiliation causes people to act up, and I believe that these security guards and this airport were not taking this man seriously in the slightest. Next time I go to the Vancouver airport I’m going to walk in a straight line, keep to myself, and not say a word… with a story like this you can never know what could happen!!

CCA #4

Effects of Interpersonal Communication and the Internet

Internet has taken away from hardcopy newspapers and magazines and paying for movies and music, but has it taken away from our many different relationships? Relationships have been affected by internet and internet communication, and it seems the more you use it, the higher the risk of being affected. This analysis will explore the negative effects that computer communication has on relationships and on people in general.
Relationships have clearly been affected in many different ways by the internet, some positive and some negative. “In one survey, approximately 25 percent of the respondents who used the internet regularly reported spending less time talking in person and on the phone with friends and family members;” (Sevigny, et al, 209)proving to be a negative effect of online communication. People do spend less time communicating in these ways since the internet is quick and easy. For example, I have some friends who never use the phone now because they can talk to me and ten other people at the same time on MSN. In talking to ten people at the same time the level of understanding and intimacy in each conversation goes down. Another negative about online chatting would be that people tend to feel safer saying whatever comes to mind while chatting online as opposed to face-to-face. It’s almost like there’s some kind of rule that tells people that they can be meaner, bolder or even completely different than they normally are; internet gives a false sense of security. Internet, in many ways, is a very positive advancement, but with these issues it takes away from the amount and quality of non-electronic communication.
People themselves have benefit in many ways from the internet, people learn more from the internet because of the easily accessible learning materials, as well, work can be completed at a faster pace with the internet. But, in some ways, internet has proven to have negative effects on some individuals. In a recent survey “[people who use internet regularly] tended to feel more lonely and depressed as their online communication increased;” (Sevigny, et al, 209) showing that maybe everything being within fingertips reach takes away important, necessary day-to-day interactions. It has been proven that leisure time and time spent with friends and family have decreased with regular internet users (Sevigny, et al, 209). For example, I have some friends who’d much rather play around on the computer than go out like they used to, in this way, internet is a shame. Internet has many benefits and the downfalls are usually overlooked, one of those downfalls, unfortunately being the unhappiness of some individuals.
Internet has many benefits that can be seen clearly at almost any time you like, but the negative aspects are usually overlooked, like a persons’ diminishing relationships and happiness. These, I believe can be avoided in how one chooses to use the internet and how big of a priority it is in their life. Internet affects, for the most part, each and every one of us daily, what is it doing to you?

CCA #3

Misconceptions about Communication

There are many misconceptions about communication, these misconceptions are what cause problems between different communicators. There are, in my opinion, two main misconceptions that tend to cause the most disagreements between two parties. These misconceptions would include ‘communication is simple’ and ‘more communication is always better’.
Many think and would agree that communication is simple because most people, pretty easily, learn the basics of a language from their parents. In reality, yes those who have been exposed to it can learn the basics, but communication, as seen in Understanding Human Communication, is much more than words itself. Communication can be seen everywhere in life, and it appears in many different forms and many different difficulty levels. This is why when we see an important political speech or even an acceptance speech at the Oscars, people have carefully put their words together, or even had someone else do it for them. When I watch the Oscars and I see an actor or actress with a speech that has put some thought put into it, you feel they are more intelligent and grateful than someone who tries to come up with something off the top of their head; showing that communication is something that needs to be worked at. “… [Even] the most inept of us can learn to be more effective with training and practice, and those who are talented can always become better,” (Sevigny, et al, 29) this shows that communication is ever evolving and proves that it’s not as simple as it would appear.
More communication is not always better, Understanding Human Communication gives a good example of ‘talking a problem to death,’ this, in no way, ever helps anyone. When two people get into a fight, and wish to talk until it’s better, most of the time it the problem ends up being magnified. Sometimes people get carried away with verbal communication and try to speak out about something until it has been drowned out, when in reality, no communication or other forms should be shown. For example, with hurricane Katrina, all of the celebrities had something to say about how affairs should be handled, they aren’t professional communicators and they enjoy being in the spotlight, so was it really a good idea to put them all on TV to speak out? At a charity telethon, when Kanye West made rude comments about Bush, it was too much, but these things happen when someone is asked the same question constantly about the same thing or when someone has just been given too much opportunity to speak about one topic of one incident. If questions were more varied and focus was directed to more knowledgeable people of the situation, unnecessary comments would not have been made. Communication is one of the most important assets to our society, but when one form is used too much the outcome can be the opposite from what was desired.
Misconceptions about communication are understandable given that it is usually not a topic that most people give any thought. I believe that ‘communication is not simple’ and ‘more communication is not always better’ are the two biggest misconceptions because they are the ones that appear to occur most often. Misconceptions of communication are not obvious and tend to occur quite often if mistakes aren’t observed.

Why Are Women Featured In Gossip Magazines More? I Get It!

Who reads more gossip magazines? Women or Men? Women. Who reads them more teenagers or adults? Teenagers. What do girls do almost as many times a day, in my opinion, as they speak (which is a lot)? Judge themselves, judge other girls and compare themselves to each other. Was that so hard? No. Girls want to read about other girls because it a) shows how they need to better themselves to be comparable to movie stars and actresses, or b) tells them that they are in some way better than that girl who has millions of adoring fans.

I’m going to have to disagree about the men not being in magazines, sure there aren’t many stories about them, but good gossip magazines usually find a way to put in a hot actor running with no shirt or playing football on the beach, coincidence? I think not! These magazines, cater to women, they cater to our need to judge and compare (I can’t believe I’m saying thisK) and they cater to our need for a break between gossip sessions (hence the half nude men).

Now, men do get featured in stories, but I’m going to have to say that their biggest stories are when they are involved with a new girl. I read gossip magazines for the gossip obviously but also for the fashion ideas and sometimes see how celebrities are not as perfect as they seem. It’s comforting to know that the beauty we see on TV is not real life beauty, no one can live up to that perfection and a lot of women are, I think, interested in knowing that.

So basically I think that women are featured more in those magazines because women read those magazines, maybe it’s catering to our selfish side? Maybe it’s catering to our insecure side? Maybe it helps us as it tells the truth.

What's Really Ruinning The Industry??

http://youtube.com/watch?v=9VOEl7vz7n8 (promo video for i-tunes music video)

I have to say that I completely disagree that i-tunes is responsible for ruining the music industry, before i-tunes I downloaded for free and since i-tunes has been introduced I have paid for more CD’s than I ever did before. Music is now cheaper and more easily accessible for everyone. Artists always complain about illegal downloading, well i-tunes provides a solution. Illegal downloading is never going to stop, the music industry, for the most part, just keeps getting greedier and greedier. Artists are supposed to be in this industry to share their talent, not to make 10 million a year when they already make 7 million a year, who needs that much money anyways? And with the amount of money that they have, when you read the tabloids anyways… none of them are happy! So, I’m pretty sure I-tunes isn’t ruining the industry, I think that some of the loose canons that they let into the industry are. Would the music industry not be a lot more respectable without Britney Spears as a member?? I know it’s all about the money, but maybe the music exec’s should think about the group of artists that they’ve hired under them who have made scenes, gone to rehab and come to be a little nutty as the cause of lost record sales and not blame the legal downloading system that a lot of people have come to love.